Was watching the movie Valentine’s Day with Rach on Sunday and I told her, with no room for negotiation, that I would never tell her if I had an “inkling” that there was something wrong with the person she was dating. Rach, just as adamantly stated that would tell me and that she wanted to know immediately what I thought was wrong with her current person of interest. What are your thoughts?
See… I think that you never really know what’s going on between two people in a relationship, and who am I to make judgments or offer up my opinions (especially if they are negative) when for all I know, you’ll end up marrying this person and also hating me for not loving whoever you love. I can’t take that chance. It’s supportive or bust. (I don’t think that’s what I meant… but you get what I’m trying to say, right?)